So Long Kem Juara

Got nothing to blog. Then i thought of my ns life.. Then i remembered i wanna blog about this long time ago. Here we go..

arrived in Kem Juara...

My camp: Kem Juara Serian, Batu 33 Jln Kuching-Serian, 94700 Serian, Sarawak. 2 hours from Sri Aman town and 30 minutes from Kuching town..

the view of "munggu babi' (gunung sejuk) from kem juara

I, Fariz Zulhusni b. Hajemi of block C2, Bravo company, Kem Juara Serian, is proud to have completed the training. Whoever went to ns will definitely give praise to it and mostly will forgot about anything bad that happened in his camp. Sweet memories will only stay in his mind, like what i do. I've mostly forgotten whatever i felt bad last time in camp, or can say that i choose to remember only the sweet ones.

bravo company

there was a jurulatih who was fierce and biased to his company, there was a jurulatih that has worked with the police is too full and not betting, there were hard times during kawad days under the very-very-very-big-hot-sun and rains, there were dinners and lunches that was so not delicious: sup kaki ayam and whatever ikan and beefs that i don't feel like eating it, there were days that need to be night guard and cannot sleep well and still have to wake up at 7am the next day, there were always day that have to wake up at 6am to do the stupid jasmani, there were days that the stupid toilet's shower don't have water supply, there were of course, days and days that i need to wash my own clothes and scolded by jurulatih and so on.



BUT!! those days, can gather together, to make my memories for ns to 'another level of sweetness.' Yea it's true.
Without them ns will not be called ns.. Right?? 


The only chance in my life, that i could participate this 'word-can't-described-journey'. Thank you the laptop which had chosen me for this.


I had, many many first experiences during my 'service'..
First of all and of course, i played the M-16. Played 20 real bullets at the Lapang Sasar, Sampadi which is about 2 and half hour from my camp. That was really fun. Really sad for not being able to won the title of best shooter. Got no pictures, so sad, because that time the hand phone is still with our jurulatih, Damn.


Anyway, my experiences continue gaining..
I learned to play kayak and rakit. Although we doesnt have a practical for it. We went to the new Dewan Undangan Negeri Sarawak but we were not allowed to see lively the conference, only watching it from the big screen which i felt just like watching it in tv. We went to Kampung Budaya Sarawak which that time was the World Harvest Festival and we have invited dancers from Thailand. But, my friends and I miss the perfomance. We went to Kem Putra Sentosa, Sematan to participate the Karnival Sukan antara Kem which is the KPS as the host for this year. Really proud to our camp which won the second place.


For the first time, my head is BALD!!

from left me, is and boy at the Dewan Makan to wait what will happen next

For the first time, I join the Dikir Barat without Tukang Karut..

my class, PI1 performance for Program Integrasi (i played baldi as a gendang)

For the first time, I slept in the jungle using poncho

Wirajaya at hutan near our camp which actually Bidayuh village

For the first time I enter and see the Dewan Undangan Negeri closely

Wira Alpha and Bravo in DUN to watch the conference for Modul Kenegaraan

For the first time, I became darkest ever in my life

near the medic and logistic

For the first time, I wore full Celoreng

its me, in full celoreng

Lastly, i got to know a bunch of new friends, from other states, and towns.. Kuala Lumpur, Kuching, Kabong, Sarikei, Sebuyau and so on.

Bravo wins 2nd place in Kawad Kaki antara kompeni

Pembinaan Karakter class..PK1 class, Ada AURA!! Uuu..Best, Nyaman Palak!!

this is PK1

sleeping in the class is my hobby

preparation for the performance of weird Dikir Barat

they call this, Jembalang Putih

Geng Kecoh! Kecoh-kecoh jak ko!

dont forget to pray to God!

There are a lot more things that can talk about ns, but it will be suffering for me and also my dear you. I think i should end here. I've been blogged since 2.00am and now it's already 4.19am. Don't know why it took such a long time to finish. Maybe i uploaded too many pictures. Thank you for finish reading this post..
I'm going to sleep now.
Good night.

How True Is It??

Think of it...

Law of Queue: 

If you change queues, the one you have left will start to move faster than the one you are in now.

Law of the Telephone: 

When you dial a wrong number, you never get an engaged tone.

Law of Mechanical Repair: 

After your hands become coated with grease, your nose will begin to itch.

Law of the Workshop: 

Any tool, when dropped, will roll to the least accessible corner. 

Law of the Alibi: 

If you tell the boss you were late for work because you had a flat tire, the next morning you will have a flat tire.

Bath Theorem: 

When the body is immersed in water, the telephone rings.

Law of Encounters: 

The probability of meeting someone you know increases when you are with someone you don't want to be seen with.

Law of the Result: 

When you try to prove to someone that a machine won't work, it will!

Law of Biomechanics: 

The severity of the itch is inversely proportional to the reach.

Law of Coffee:

As soon as you sit down for a cup of hot coffee, your boss will ask you to do something which will last until the coffee is cold.

Movie Theatre Rule: 

People with the seats at the furthest from the aisle arrive last.

so, what do you think?? How true is it??

ANGELS AND DEMONS

okay...yesterday having great time with my gurl and doesnt forget with my friend, zaini which is was the last night he will be in Kuching..but just arrived here in a last couple of days...so, just wan to put more picture here because im very2 lazy right now...

on daylight....

fully white

do we have simillar?

around sarawak plaza

on midnight...

 

family cafe

sial abisszzz

 

 in Hong Kong...

so..enjoy your day....there is the Angel and Demon...

p/s to zaini, dont forget to come here again later....

5 Reasons Ladies Should Never Ask Their Ex to 'Stay Friend'

Many of us have been experience this before, that bittersweet moment at the end of a relationship where you know it's over and there's basically nothing that can be done to save it. So, you mentally prepare yourself to part ways for good, to return to the single life. 

And then she says, "But we'll still be friends.", and some of that sudden separation anxiety goes away. You start thinking that in some way or another, you'll still be a significant part of each other's lives, only you won't really. In fact, they might be the most hollow words anyone can ever speak. 

I'm sure there are plenty of guys guilty of these words as well, but in my experience, it's always been the female side that does the grasping for some kind of friendship, and I'm here to tell you it has to stop. 

I will be fair. It's certainly a nice sentiment, the idea of keeping in touch and maintaining a different kind of relationship with a person you once loved. In some cases these kinds of friendships can even work, given the right amount of time and distance. However, right after a break-up is never the time to ask a guy to stay friends. Got it??

Here are the 5 reasons..

1. It stifles his very manhood. By not cutting him off, you're giving him an excuse to linger and not get back out on the playing field. If you were the one who wanted him gone in the first place, asking him to be friends defeats that purpose entirely.
2. It gives him false hope. Again, if it wasn't mutual, asking to stay friends is a surefire way of making him think he's still got a shot somewhere down the line. It gives him all the reason he needs to call, text, email, or whatever. Unless you're a glutton for punishment, I doubt you want a heartbroken guy trying to be your buddy 24/7. 
3. If he's stupid enough to actually agree to being friends, it makes both of you look weak.He looks weak because he didn't have the balls to say no to you, and you look weak because you were too scared to cut him off completely. It's also basically an admission that you still need him in some way. 
4. It's really just a delaying tactic. Once one or both of you finds a new significant other, are you really going to remain friends? Unless enough time has passed that you're both really over each other, probably not. In the end, you're not likely to remain friends anyway, so why put it off?
5. Just because it makes you feel like a good person doesn't mean you're a good person. It seems like the kind thing to do, doesn't it, to be kind to someone even after you've dealt them a severe emotional blow? Go ahead, pat yourself on the back for doing a good deed. In reality, all it does is prolong the break-up period for both of you.

So guys, here's my advice in this situation: cut yourself off completely. That means deleting numbers, emails, screen names, de-friending,  you name it. It'll hurt for a while, but not as much as playing party to a phony friendship. If you really not ready for a special relationships, so just be friends.

Have you ever been asked by an ex to 'stay friends'?

back to my work

fuhh...so long time already I left my project...its about 2 weeks!! so, i dont want to talk much just want to share some of what I've done this weekend...

 

drifting around the city

  

finger on the keys

 

the nine balls hit

for more, visit http://dazoulle.deviantart.com/

short 60 surveys

hurm..just recover from the red eyes, now its beginning of march already..so, since the last update on last february, so just want to put simple post for the first post in this month..it just about a survey i've found last few days...

1. Where exactly were you at 3:18pm yesterday?
- i just sleeping on my bed
2. How did you get the idea for your Facebook name?
- it just my name, along just plus with my gf name
3. What song are you listening to right now?
- Owl City - Fireflies
4. What color is your phone?
- Black (the colour of darkness)
5. Do you click on pop-ups?
- Never. Its a liar..or maybe a virus...
6. Do you own an iPod?
- nope
7. What was the first thing you thought this morning?
- message from my gurl...of coz...
8. Is the person you have a crush on older or younger than you?
- younger...
9. What did you do last night?
- watching television
10. What do you hope to do this weekend?
- driving's study
11. What are the last two digits of your phone number?
- 36
12. What was the last thing that you had to eat?
- Delio orange flavour
13. Who is the last opposite sex that you hugged?
- nobody
15. What do you dislike at the moment?
- boring...nothing to do at home
16. What food are u craving?
- my mum fried rice

17. What did you dream last night?
- i didnt sleep last night
18. What was the last TV show you watched?
- Raja Lawak...ahaha
19. What is your favorite piece of jewelry?
- i didnt wear those things
20. Name 2 people on your Top Friends:
- in social network?
21. Do you always lock your door?
- Yes
23. Are you on any medication?
- Nope
24. What side of the bed do you sleep on?
- Any
25. What color shirt are you wearing?
- Black
26. What is your favorite frozen treat?
- what's this??
27. How many tattoos do you have?
- i dont have any..its HARAM!
28. What's your favorite store?
- 7 eleven
30. Who's someone you haven't seen in a while and miss?
- erm..
31. What was the last text you received last night ?
- nytez hubby..mwwaaahhxxx
32. Do you care what people think about you?
- i dont care if u dont...haha
33. Have you ever done something to make trouble?
- maybe
34. Where do you wish you were right now?
- with my lover

35. What is your font color on AIM/MSN?
- Blue
36. Where do you live?
- S.J.
37. Have you ever moshed?
- whats this??
39. Do you like the person who posted this last?
- maybe...
40. Do you know their birthday?
- i've found this things myself...
41. What is the thing that you would most like to change about you?
- Nothing... I like myself
42. What words do you say a lot?
- "siaw r!!"
43. What do you smell like right now?
- Adidas IceDive...haha
44. What is ur favourite colour?
- Blue and Black
45. Do you like mayo?
- Yes
46. What do you tell yourself when times get hard?
- Relax, breathe…. Let’s kick some ass!
47. Would you ever sky dive?
-  im the altophobian
49. If you could say something to your ex what would it be?
- Erm… too rude and explicit to put it here!
50. Whose the last person you saw with their shirt off?
- my dad..haha
51. Do you enjoy giving hugs?
- Yes please…
52. Have you ever been to Australia?
- Never
53. Do you own a digital camera?
- Canon Powershot A470 (currently)
54. What celebrities do people say you look like?
- people never told this
55. Who is your favorite Star Wars character?
- Obi Wan Kenobi
56. Does it annoy you when someone says they'll call but don't?
- that s*cks!
57. Are you a jealous person?
- Depend on the situation, but usually YES..hehe
58. What was the last thing you typed?
- Depend on the situation, but usually no
59. Do you ever feel guilty about eating meat?
- Nope..hehe
60. Who's name is on your mind right now?
- erm..maybe my gurl..

Project "TURN UP"

Haha...getting suprised with my topic this time?? Actually, this is my first art project I ever held...Since I'm going to be more active in art, I'm trying my first project and I hope this going to be great..So, let me give some briefing about this project...

Project "TURN UP"

This is my own first private project for this year..I take the name of TURN UP which means discover..What I want to discover?? So, maybe i really noob in this world, so i have many things to discover..Firstly, I want to discover how the differences between the picture taken with DSLR Camera and non-DSLR Camera..Secondly, I want to discover how i can edit a picture to be look really awesome..Finally, i want to see what's the different when the picture taken with those different camera when editted..so, i hope everybody can give me a hand such giving some comment on my arts so my project will be successfull....

Everybody are welcomed to give any suggestions or comments on my art later at my blog or my deviantART...

ATM Machine

A new sign in the Bank Lobby reads:

Please note that this Bank is installing new Drive-through ATM machines enabling customers to withdraw cash without leaving their vehicles. Customers using this new facility are requested to use the procedures outlined below when accessing their accounts.After months of careful research, MALE & FEMALE Procedures have been developed.

Please follow the appropriate steps for your gender.

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MALE PROCEDURE:

1. Drive up to the cash machine.

2. Put down your car window.

3. Insert card into machine and enter PIN.

4. Enter amount of cash required and withdraw.

5. Retrieve card, cash and receipt.

6. Put window up.

7. Drive off.

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FEMALE PROCEDURE:

1. Drive up to cash machine.

2. Reverse and back up the required amount to align car window with the machine.

3. Set parking brake, put the window down.

4. Find handbag, remove all contents on to passenger seat to locate card.

5. Tell person on cell phone you will call them back and hang up.

6. Attempt to insert card into machine.

7. Open car door to allow easier access to machine due to its excessive distance from the car.

8. Insert card.

9. Re-insert card the right way.

10. Dig through handbag to find diary with your PIN written on the inside back page.

11. Enter PIN.

12. Press cancel and re-enter correct PIN.

13. Enter amount of cash required.

14. Check makeup in rear view mirror.

15. Retrieve cash and receipt.

16. Empty handbag again to locate wallet and place cash inside.

17. Write debit amount in check register and place receipt in back of checkbook.

18. Re-check makeup.

19. Drive forward 2 feet.

20. Reverse back to cash machine.

21. Retrieve card.

22. Re-empty hand bag, locate cardholder, and place card into the slot provided!

23. Give dirty look to irate male driver waiting behind you.

24. Restart stalled engine and pull off.

25. Redial person on cell phone.

26. Drive for 2 to 3 miles.

27. Release parking brake.

How true is it???

Hairstyles and Its Popularity

Interview suit dry-cleaned? Check. Shoes shined? Check. Mohawk perfectly sculpted with extra wax or clay? Hold on a second there, boy. This is a job interview, where you’re supposed to strut your experience, not your hairstyles!

And how you look doesn’t just include your clothes and your hygiene but how you fashion your locks. It may have something to do with the fact that women make up a majority of the hiring force today, and women are much more conscious and concerned about grooming, especially when it comes to hair. But experts agree that you can infer a lot about a person including how you think they’re going to function as an employee are based on how they fashion their hairstyle.

So, how do you know if you look the part? Here’s what your hairstyle really says about you.

Side Part

Popular in: Finance, politics, insurance.

Says: Serious and business-minded. You’re a hard worker who wants to get ahead.

Why: It’s on the conservative and simple side, but it still shows that you put some effort into your grooming routine. It’s also a classic look that will never go out of style, because it conveys a sense of class and importance. There’s a secret among Human Resource people that you’re more likely to get a promotion if you look like you’ve already made it.

Buzz Cut

Popular in: Medicine, professional sports, the Army.

Says: Confident and masculine. You care about appearance, but you’re too busy to spend too much time on your hair.

Why: There’s a reason this look is favored by the military. It’s not just extremely low maintenance, leaving time for more important business (or battles, as the case may be), but it’s a bold statement that shows you want to look like you’re part of the team and move up the ranks.

Faux Hawk

Popular in: Fashion, photography, hipsterdom.

Says: Creative and extroverted. You’re concerned about standing out from the crowd.

Why: It’s an edgy look that conveys a lot of confidence and personal style. That said, it’s also just breaking over into mainstream, so if you work in an environment where everyone else is sporting side parts, you’re going to attract a lot of attention. If, however, you work in a creative field where suits are optional (and even tattoos are acceptable), wear your faux hawk with pride. If your appearance syncs with the rest of the workplace, it gives the impression that you’re able to handle the technical skills.

Textured Bedhead

Popular in: Hollywood, media, public relations.

Says: Trendy and detail-oriented. You care about the little things.

Why: It’s a look that requires a fair amount of time to create and maintain, so it shows that you put a lot of effort into keeping up your appearance. People in positions of power, especially recruiters, like to see that a potential employee takes care of himself and keeps up with trends. Besides that, when you look good, you feel good and have more confidence.

Caesar Cut

Popular in: Law, theater, gladiator rings.

Says: Intuitive and savvy. Concerned about looking perfectly pulled together.

Why: You have more important things on your morning agenda than spending hours styling your hair, but you still want to look like you take pride in your appearance, and more importantly, that you mean business. This look is great for guys of all ages, but it’s an especially good style for guys who are just entering the workforce. Younger people want to believe people will hire them based on competence and not appearance, but unfortunately, that’s not the case. You do have to give up some of your identity if you want to be part of the team and move up the ranks.

Left 4 Dead & Starting Over

Actually, i really lazy right now to update my blog...so, for this time I'm going to share what I've got this weekend which I just spend below RM50...It quite useful for me because those things are my interest. Let we go through my topic... 

my new collection, bought on Feb. 20, 2010

1. Starting Over, by Tony Petersons

This is the story of how we grow old, how we give up the dreams of youth for something better and how many chances we have to get it right. George Bailey has been given the gift we all dream of which is the chance to live his life again. After suffering a heart attack at the age of 42, George is given the heart of a 19 year old and suddenly everything changes. He is a friend to his teenage son and daughter and not a stern Home Secretary, monitoring their every move. And suddenly he wants to change the world, just as soon as he shakes off his hangover. But George Bailey discovers that being young again is not all it is cracked up to be and what he actually wants more than anything in the universe is to have his old life back.

This book reminds me about the latest post in Exo's blog on Feb. 17, 2010 which he told about Regretting the Pass is Hell. I think what Exo's told was right that we will not change if we go back to the pass. BUT from this book it doesnt told us about we will going back to the pass, it told us about continuing our live after given a second chance. For this, i will agree that we will change. This book cost RM32.31 after 10% discount.

2. Left 4 Dead 2

Down in the bayou of Louisiana, all hell has broken loose in this second entry of the multiplayer zombie-fest. Players assume the role of four new survivors, each with their own personality and new dialog. The game leads them through the southeastern region of the US from Savannah, Georgia through the bayou country, and climaxing in New Orleans' French Quarter.

This co-operative action horror FPS takes you and your friends through the cities, swamps and cemeteries of the Deep South, from Savannah to New Orleans across five expansive campaigns. You'll play as one of four new survivors armed with a wide and devastating array of classic and upgraded weapons. In addition to firearms, you’ll also get a chance to take out some aggression on infected with a variety of carnage-creating melee weapons, from chainsaws to axes and even the deadly frying pan. You'll be putting these weapons to the test against (or playing as in Versus) three horrific and formidable new Special Infected. You'll also encounter five new "uncommon" common infected, including the terrifying Mudmen.

This game really interestings and this is my favourite genre, shooting/adventure. BUT i still have a problem to install it in my pc and still keep on remind me that It has an error. I want to refer back to the seller soon. This game cost RM8 only.

In conclusion, i just spent about RM40 this weekend...Lastly, use your money wisely...

Kissing Language

Guys..look what i've got....but firstly, i would like to share about the facts of kissing...

Let we go through the FACTS...

• People with crooked teeth(its me?) usually kiss BETTER than people with straight teeth.
• When you chew gum before you kiss, it actually makes your breath SMELL WORSE than before because of your salivary glands.
• Mints work MUCH better
• Though there is the French Kiss, surveys around the world said that instead of the FRENCH, it is said that the ITALIANS kisses the best! Mamma mia bella signorina!
• The MEXICANS are the worst kisser ever
• Kissing is healthy. It makes your heart beat rates 13-18% FASTER than normal
• GUYS, It is much more ROMANTIC to kiss girls in a fancy restaurant or UNDER THE STARS than to kiss in your disgusting bedroom or in the movie theaters
• GIRLS, Just because a guy kisses you every 10 minutes doesn't mean he’s using you ...he's just a LITTLE HORNY ;) and there`s no problem with that!!!
• It has been PROVEN that when people with the SAME hair colour kiss, it is more ROMANTIC than that of a different hair colour. Don't ask, we don't know why either hehe…
• Your FIRST Kiss isn’t always your BEST Kiss
• If you can tie a KNOT in a CHERRY with your tongue, it doesn't mean you are a good kisser... it just means your TONGUE MUSCLE is strong
• ALL GIRLS are NOT WHORES, and ALL GUYS are NOT PLAYERS... EVERYONE gets a LITTLE HORNY sometimes.

Next, we go to the TIPS...

• Touch his/her face.
• Run our fingers through his/her hair.
• Kiss softly at first, then apply more pressure.
• Hold your kissing partner.

Now, we come to the kissing language...
[of coz, it's a language. If a kiss is the Language of Love, then we have a lot to talk about it...]

+ Kiss on the ear ------------------------ "I'm horny"
+ Kiss on the cheek -------------------- "We're friends"
+ Kiss on the hand ---------------------- "I adore you"
+ Kiss on the neck ---------------------- "We belong together"
+ Kiss on the shoulder ----------------- "I want you now"
+ Kiss on the lips ------------------------ "I love you" or "I want you"
+ Holding hands ------------------------- "We can learn to love each other"
+ A wink ------------------------------------ "Let's get it on"
+ Slap on the butt ------------------------ "That’s mine"
+ Playing with the ear ------------------- "I can't live without you"
+ Holding on tight ------------------------ "Don't let go"
+ Looking into each other's eyes --- "Let's get romantic"
+ Playing with hair on head ----------- "Tell me you love me"
+ Arms around the waist -------------- "I love you too much to let go"
+ Laughing while kissing -------------- "I am completely comfortable with you"

Last but not least: If you're kissing someone, close your eyes. Seriously, it's not nice to stare...

Taun Rimo

taun rimo(the year of tiger)

Before I forgot, or don't have the time to update the blog, I just want to wish all my Chinese friends, and to all who celebrate it Happy Chinese New Year, Gong Xi Fa Cai! May the year of the Tiger brings us good fortune, prosperity and wealth...hehe...

Special dedication to my ex-roomate, Apek (Lianal Lai)
Happy Chinese New Year...
May the good bless you and good luck in your life...
Hope i can see u as a pilot and be in your plane in the next 10 years...haha...
Really hope bro!!

from: FAZA...

Shirt Design

Its been so long since the last time i design a shirt using a photoshop...so, this time i've recall back what i have..besides, zaini is keep on remind me to update my deviantart..here there are..


revive the music by ~dazoulle on deviantART


men rules by ~dazoulle on deviantART


shoot the moon by ~dazoulle on deviantART


talk to the hand by ~dazoulle on deviantART


girl next door by ~dazoulle on deviantART


boy next door by ~dazoulle on deviantART

so..thats it!!

XBL versus PSN

Online play is one of the most integral aspects in the next-generation consoles. Microsoft, Sony, and Nintendo are the 3 big company which handle their services although different though.

XBOX 360 versus PlayStation 3

XBL which stand for Xbox Live isn't free if you want to go online for popular games, but their payment plans really aren't bad at all. Moreover, you can get a lot considering what you pay for like Netflix, party features (joining chat groups and party watching with the aforementioned Netflix), and more fast access to online content like trailers, previews, and downloadable games.

Thus, some people accuse Sony's PSN (PlayStation Network) of being "ghetto-online"(this one actually just like a site where we can get free online games) while it's free with a neater interface, it's actually less efficient and takes too much time to navigate. It also lacks some of the features of XBL, but in place of that is a useful Internet browser. For now, PS3 and PSP users can be satisfied because knowing that they don't have to purchase anything further than their system, but that may change in the future, as there will be adding a fee to certain aspects from PSN based on discussion amongst the Sony.

By the way, don't feel too bitter if I didn't give much information about the Wii. It's not because that I hate the system, but honestly I really not interested with this console and i dont know much about this console. Besides that, from the information that I have, it's got an even more basic online interface than the PS3, and its friend code system is arguing to put it lightly.

Stages of A Relationship

Have you ever feel that our relationship goes through stages? I feel that its really goes through stages...

Sure there are plenty of other fish in the sea, but you're not anywhere near the sea. You're in the desert. Alone.

First, you have the honeymoon stage. Everything seems so perfect, almost too perfect. You always want to be with this person, calls and sms(short messaging system) every time which is almost every minute or maybe every seconds. You can't imagine yourself without him or her, although your time together has been spared.


Next, you go through the questioning and fighting stage. Is this person right for me after all? Is this going to work out? You start to fight about how he or she doesn't communicate with you as much as he or she used to. He or she doesn't try to "appeal" you anymore because he or she believes he or she already had you. This is really where couples make it or break it. Some people just can't stand that there isn't that firing spark anymore. Sure, you feel connected. Just not how it was in the very beginning of the relationship.

Next step is finding the perfect medium. If you overcame all the fights, the days where you'd barely talk. You eventually find a good in between in your relationship. He or she starts to offer to come see you more, but still make time for his or her friends. Just not as much friend time as it was before. The text and calls aren't constant anymore, yet they do exist again. Everything just seems right. You know him or her well, he or she becomes your best friend. You both experienced having your "own life" while still being with each other. You know you can depend on him or her, as he or she does as well with you.

This cycle repeats, often. So if you're upset thinking that the honeymoon stage will not stop to exist again, you're wrong. Relationships go through this so they can mature, so they are put to the test and whatever couple makes it out alive is really meant to be. If you don't get through this tests, then he or she isn't the one. Everyone was made for someone in this world, and I will always believe that. I don't necessarily think things always happen for a reason, but in all situations you have someone out there meant for you. It's all just a matter of finding them..

For those in a relationship, what stage are you in right now?