ANGELS AND DEMONS

okay...yesterday having great time with my gurl and doesnt forget with my friend, zaini which is was the last night he will be in Kuching..but just arrived here in a last couple of days...so, just wan to put more picture here because im very2 lazy right now...

on daylight....

fully white

do we have simillar?

around sarawak plaza

on midnight...

 

family cafe

sial abisszzz

 

 in Hong Kong...

so..enjoy your day....there is the Angel and Demon...

p/s to zaini, dont forget to come here again later....

5 Reasons Ladies Should Never Ask Their Ex to 'Stay Friend'

Many of us have been experience this before, that bittersweet moment at the end of a relationship where you know it's over and there's basically nothing that can be done to save it. So, you mentally prepare yourself to part ways for good, to return to the single life. 

And then she says, "But we'll still be friends.", and some of that sudden separation anxiety goes away. You start thinking that in some way or another, you'll still be a significant part of each other's lives, only you won't really. In fact, they might be the most hollow words anyone can ever speak. 

I'm sure there are plenty of guys guilty of these words as well, but in my experience, it's always been the female side that does the grasping for some kind of friendship, and I'm here to tell you it has to stop. 

I will be fair. It's certainly a nice sentiment, the idea of keeping in touch and maintaining a different kind of relationship with a person you once loved. In some cases these kinds of friendships can even work, given the right amount of time and distance. However, right after a break-up is never the time to ask a guy to stay friends. Got it??

Here are the 5 reasons..

1. It stifles his very manhood. By not cutting him off, you're giving him an excuse to linger and not get back out on the playing field. If you were the one who wanted him gone in the first place, asking him to be friends defeats that purpose entirely.
2. It gives him false hope. Again, if it wasn't mutual, asking to stay friends is a surefire way of making him think he's still got a shot somewhere down the line. It gives him all the reason he needs to call, text, email, or whatever. Unless you're a glutton for punishment, I doubt you want a heartbroken guy trying to be your buddy 24/7. 
3. If he's stupid enough to actually agree to being friends, it makes both of you look weak.He looks weak because he didn't have the balls to say no to you, and you look weak because you were too scared to cut him off completely. It's also basically an admission that you still need him in some way. 
4. It's really just a delaying tactic. Once one or both of you finds a new significant other, are you really going to remain friends? Unless enough time has passed that you're both really over each other, probably not. In the end, you're not likely to remain friends anyway, so why put it off?
5. Just because it makes you feel like a good person doesn't mean you're a good person. It seems like the kind thing to do, doesn't it, to be kind to someone even after you've dealt them a severe emotional blow? Go ahead, pat yourself on the back for doing a good deed. In reality, all it does is prolong the break-up period for both of you.

So guys, here's my advice in this situation: cut yourself off completely. That means deleting numbers, emails, screen names, de-friending,  you name it. It'll hurt for a while, but not as much as playing party to a phony friendship. If you really not ready for a special relationships, so just be friends.

Have you ever been asked by an ex to 'stay friends'?

Kissing Language

Guys..look what i've got....but firstly, i would like to share about the facts of kissing...

Let we go through the FACTS...

• People with crooked teeth(its me?) usually kiss BETTER than people with straight teeth.
• When you chew gum before you kiss, it actually makes your breath SMELL WORSE than before because of your salivary glands.
• Mints work MUCH better
• Though there is the French Kiss, surveys around the world said that instead of the FRENCH, it is said that the ITALIANS kisses the best! Mamma mia bella signorina!
• The MEXICANS are the worst kisser ever
• Kissing is healthy. It makes your heart beat rates 13-18% FASTER than normal
• GUYS, It is much more ROMANTIC to kiss girls in a fancy restaurant or UNDER THE STARS than to kiss in your disgusting bedroom or in the movie theaters
• GIRLS, Just because a guy kisses you every 10 minutes doesn't mean he’s using you ...he's just a LITTLE HORNY ;) and there`s no problem with that!!!
• It has been PROVEN that when people with the SAME hair colour kiss, it is more ROMANTIC than that of a different hair colour. Don't ask, we don't know why either hehe…
• Your FIRST Kiss isn’t always your BEST Kiss
• If you can tie a KNOT in a CHERRY with your tongue, it doesn't mean you are a good kisser... it just means your TONGUE MUSCLE is strong
• ALL GIRLS are NOT WHORES, and ALL GUYS are NOT PLAYERS... EVERYONE gets a LITTLE HORNY sometimes.

Next, we go to the TIPS...

• Touch his/her face.
• Run our fingers through his/her hair.
• Kiss softly at first, then apply more pressure.
• Hold your kissing partner.

Now, we come to the kissing language...
[of coz, it's a language. If a kiss is the Language of Love, then we have a lot to talk about it...]

+ Kiss on the ear ------------------------ "I'm horny"
+ Kiss on the cheek -------------------- "We're friends"
+ Kiss on the hand ---------------------- "I adore you"
+ Kiss on the neck ---------------------- "We belong together"
+ Kiss on the shoulder ----------------- "I want you now"
+ Kiss on the lips ------------------------ "I love you" or "I want you"
+ Holding hands ------------------------- "We can learn to love each other"
+ A wink ------------------------------------ "Let's get it on"
+ Slap on the butt ------------------------ "That’s mine"
+ Playing with the ear ------------------- "I can't live without you"
+ Holding on tight ------------------------ "Don't let go"
+ Looking into each other's eyes --- "Let's get romantic"
+ Playing with hair on head ----------- "Tell me you love me"
+ Arms around the waist -------------- "I love you too much to let go"
+ Laughing while kissing -------------- "I am completely comfortable with you"

Last but not least: If you're kissing someone, close your eyes. Seriously, it's not nice to stare...

Stages of A Relationship

Have you ever feel that our relationship goes through stages? I feel that its really goes through stages...

Sure there are plenty of other fish in the sea, but you're not anywhere near the sea. You're in the desert. Alone.

First, you have the honeymoon stage. Everything seems so perfect, almost too perfect. You always want to be with this person, calls and sms(short messaging system) every time which is almost every minute or maybe every seconds. You can't imagine yourself without him or her, although your time together has been spared.


Next, you go through the questioning and fighting stage. Is this person right for me after all? Is this going to work out? You start to fight about how he or she doesn't communicate with you as much as he or she used to. He or she doesn't try to "appeal" you anymore because he or she believes he or she already had you. This is really where couples make it or break it. Some people just can't stand that there isn't that firing spark anymore. Sure, you feel connected. Just not how it was in the very beginning of the relationship.

Next step is finding the perfect medium. If you overcame all the fights, the days where you'd barely talk. You eventually find a good in between in your relationship. He or she starts to offer to come see you more, but still make time for his or her friends. Just not as much friend time as it was before. The text and calls aren't constant anymore, yet they do exist again. Everything just seems right. You know him or her well, he or she becomes your best friend. You both experienced having your "own life" while still being with each other. You know you can depend on him or her, as he or she does as well with you.

This cycle repeats, often. So if you're upset thinking that the honeymoon stage will not stop to exist again, you're wrong. Relationships go through this so they can mature, so they are put to the test and whatever couple makes it out alive is really meant to be. If you don't get through this tests, then he or she isn't the one. Everyone was made for someone in this world, and I will always believe that. I don't necessarily think things always happen for a reason, but in all situations you have someone out there meant for you. It's all just a matter of finding them..

For those in a relationship, what stage are you in right now?

we meet again

1 year has passed, since our last date on January 2009...

Finally, t0day i met her again face to face...i really miss her s0 much, but today I didnt believe that i can meet her again, eventhough we have a plan to meet today...Thanks God!! I really wait for this momments...i going out with her to buy her school stuff, something for decoration as preparation for her school coming "Hari Asrama Terbuka" and i brought her to watch movie, The Spy Next Door together with me at parkson...if im not mistaken, a Star Cineplex...

kfc, sarawak plaza

elevator, Tun Jugah

hartz, sarawak plaza

kfc, parks0n

got trouble on the date of the picture...actually, the date was wrong bcoz we forgot to set the date on the camera...well, its okay...so, im very happy today...going to miss her again......mwaaaahhhxxxx....

missing her again

Missing someone gets easy when they are away from us. Sometimes, when I think of all the memories I've had, I'm blessed I've known someone so special, it stays forever in my mind and it fits exactly in the size of my small heart.

This evening she's going back to school and she doesnt bring along her handphone. That made missing her so much. If she bring along her phone, surely i can sms or call her. I felt this holiday so short, for us but not for me. Because i still have about 3 months of holiday to wait for spm result come out. I really miss the momment chatting and sms with her especially chatting. This holiday was the first time we chat together with webcam.

The hardest part of missing her is when I know things will never be the same again, there's no longer that sweet smile on the sweet face, a hand to hold and a heart to understand, let alone I can't do anything about it but to move on and forget things behind.

And the most paintful part of missing someone is when all I can think of are the memories she left me. Cause that's the exact moment I will ask myself... "Will those memories ever come back again?"

Its about a year i havent meet her since our last date on the January 2009...really miss her so much...

apa reti SETIA??

SETIA...
t0pik yang amat sinonim dlm perhubungan percintaan antara 2 insan...namun sblm lidah lbih petah berbicara, izinkan memberikan sedikit definisi mengenai cinta...cinta? kalau dah x tau menghargai cinta, lebih baik x yah bercinta..hahax...so, for this topic i wanna share 1 short story with u guys...

zaini(bukan nama sbnr)seorang lelaki yang sedang betul-betul kecewa sekarang ini kerana cinta, bayangkan, dirinya sanggup buat apa saja untuk memiliki hati seorang wanita, hinggakan sanggup lupakan kepentingan diri dan buang semua ego dirinya untuk cuba menyelamatkan hubungannya dan gadis tersebut, tapi at last ini balasan yang dia dapat…gadis itu meninggalkannya untuk lelaki lain yang lebih berharta(contohnya)…tapi tak mengapa, mungkin ini adalah ujian atau rahmat daripada tuhan bagi dirinya…

Kasih sayang dan percaya satu sama lain adalah satu perkara yang wajib ada dalam bercinta…percayalah kalau tak ada 2 perkara ni, janganlah bercinta…sebab akan mengundang kekecewaan akhirnya…dan yang paling penting ialah “SETIA” pada yang satu, jangan terlintas sedikit pun perasaan untuk tinggalkan seseorang itu atas sebab2 yang remeh temeh…dalam hubungan yang kurang mesra, saya yakin kesabaran itu adalah penting untuk menjadikan hubungan yang lebih mesra...

SO, for those yang sedang hangat bercinta…
Nasihat saya, setialah pada yang satu…kerana kecewa dalam bercinta tu adalah satu perkara yang benar-benar menyeksakan…janganlah bercinta andainya kita tak tahu makna setia terlebih dahulu, fikirkanlah perasaan orang yang ditinggalkan selepas kita bagi dia sepenuh harapan...

cerita ini hanya sekadar renungan buat teman2 yang tercinta, tiada kena-mengena dengan yang msih hdup atupn tlh meninggal dunia...peace n0 war...sorry, i do not own everythngs~